Tiganii (Gypsies)

Well...I had a semi long adventurous day again.
I woke,
I took my laundry out to dry in the sun (noted that my semi yellowish , originally white t-shirt has semi brown and green on it too now),
so I ate lunch (pasta sauce, pasta, bread, and lots of green garlic!),
walked to the Primaria for the exercise (about a 35-40 min walk),
saw about 40 kids walk towards me to go to a "f-unc-da-ziaiy" (a carnival!?),
got picked up 1/3 of the way there by a co-worker at the Primaria,
a lady who's a teacher at the school is running to be the first female Primar (mayor) asked me to go to a function with her,
I said good bye to Lilly and the present mayor (Domnul Ivan, who is my counterpart for PC) and went with a competitor to "f-unc-da-ziaiy" (a carnival!?),
was bored with 50 kids in a room upstairs at a house waiting for 3 hours for something!,
I was at campaigning event to brainwash kids to vote a certain way, with soda, and cookies, and a priest and I learned I was at a "Foundation for Children," and I was not very happy about it,


much later....
I decided to go for a walk,
saw a lady who worked at the old folks home and walked with her (my real plan was to walk by the tiganii(gypsies) that have been calling for me to come over last time),
I saw the lady to her home and said goodbye,
while walking back down to go towards my home I walked by the tiganii and they asked me to come over and I did (I had with me my phone, 3 ron, and my keys),
I had learned from that lady that these gypsies had been there for 1 month, and that different ones came and went (this lessened the pressure I felt to get to know the gypsies),
never-the-less I went over and introduced myself and talked to them (a mom and her many kids making coffee over a fire outside their tent),

They were friendly and open and curious.
I did honestly feel nervous around them, standing there talking to them, wondering who was watching and what they thought, and the gypsies, I think, knew it too.
I was polite and cautious....I'm not sure why I was alert, but I was.
A little Romanian girl who'd befriended me ran up to us after I'd been there 10 minutes and helped with the conversation and explaining things she already knew about me. The gypsies were more introvert when she was there and they gave me space. Later I found out, even though the girl spoke to the gypsies and explained things to them politely, she didn't like them. She went there to help me (that was sweet of her). She was hesitant about telling the adults where we came back from, but she's young enough that she did tell them we were talking to the tiganii.

The gypsies in my village were curious about my age and where I was from. They tried to teach me a few phrases in Tigani (gypsie langauge), but I've forgotten them. They were curious about a few phrases in Chinese too. The mom was obviously the boss and she reminded me of an Italian mom, big, nurturing, giant heart with presence. She had lots of kids and it was like a silly question that I asked how many.

I am trying to figure out if gypsies that want to integrate into the community are easily accepted. I see darker kids that get along great with lighter skinned kids and there's zip-o segregation. I wonder if those darker kids are gypsie originated or just darker skinned Romanians.

Bias and stereotypes exist for a reason (I believe), but not everyone falls into these stereotypes and people should get the benefit-of-the-doubt before you judge them.

I don't understand this culture, but like any culture, I am willing to learn.